If you were to ask any girl that has dated me, or any of my friends, about me, they most likely all would tell you that I am probably the most self-centered, narcissistic man that they have ever met in their lives. I have a bigger ego than any character that you might encounter on the Jersey Shore. I truly do believe that I am God's gift to women. If you're my friend on Facebook, then you know I love to talk about how awesome I am via my Facebook updates.

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Time and time again, you've probably heard that it's bad for you to have a big ego and be narcissistic, as no one likes people that have those traits. Well, they're wrong. Wrong in the sense that having a ego and being narcissistic being a bad thing. Why are they good traits to have or develop over time? Because they provide far more benefits than you think. For starters, having a huge ego pushes you to be an alpha male. There is nothing I can't stand more than to not be the best at something that I think I'm good at. What this does, is push me to surpass my competition, thus becoming the leader or best at whatever it is that I'm trying to do. I think I am all that and a very expensive bag of chips. And being the best at something makes you much more appealing to women, afterall, second best is only the first loser.

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Having a huge ego also gives you a bossy attitude and a sense of entitlement. Again, this benefits you with women. Women want the clear leaders. They don't want the men that simply do what they're told or follow what everyone else is doing. If you're out, and a woman can clearly see that you are calling the shots, she's going to see you as the leader and love it (as long as you aren't trying to force it on meaningless decisions, ala trying to control every frame or hoop), especially when she sees you do it with a very high level of confidence.

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The sense of entitlement is what is going to drive you to push your competitors to the side. I use to be a nice guy, tip-toeing around the feelings of my friends. Now I don't care. If one of my friends wants the same girl, I have no problem pushing them to the side. Why? Because do you really think they're going to take into consideration what you want when they don't benefit from it? Nope. Keeping on the topic of entitlement, you should behave as if you are entitled to everything. At some point, I told myself that I was going to ignore feelings and common courtesy, and just ask for or demand whatever it is that I want. And you know what? Almost every single time, I've gotten what I wanted. I have no problem telling a waiter that my order is wrong. I have no problem telling someone to do what I don't want to do. And I have no problem making people feel like shit when they don't give me what I want.

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All of this sounds bad, but it makes life so much easier. You'd think that people wouldn't want to be around such egotistical men, but it's the opposite. People gravitate to such men. Why? Because these men handle all of the dirty work for the group, these men make decisions so other people don't have to, and these men tend to have charismatic personalities that are actually fun to be around. And when it comes to your friends, it produces a bunch of big egos in the group, and that competitiveness is actually what makes the group of you as a whole get better. The guys with the biggest egos tend to get the most women. Never forget that.

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